Add in some visuals...

Watch horny Tik Tok videos. Venture to the ~after dark~ side of it to see if it turns you on.

Watch porn together. It could turn both of you on enough to shut it off and start some action IRL, give you inspo for new moves, or just be a bonding activity.

Or find a woman-friendly porn site for yourself. Feeling non-icky about the porn you watch can make a huge difference in your sex life.

Try giving a virtual BJ. Grab a toy and sext your partner that you're about to treat the toy like their penis and go forth. Not only is it hot for them, but you'll probably find it hot for you to be putting on such a sexy, exhibitionist-y show.

Give a sexy lap dance by switching between standing above your seated partner, squatting, and sitting. Turns out that's the secret to a sexy lap dance: just alternating your stances.

Watch a sexy show together. Turn on Witcher, Bridgerton, or Outlander and let the steamy scenes influence how you spend your night.

Do it in front of a mirror. Doggie style intercourse in front of a full-length mirror allows you one of the best seats in the house. You can lock eyes tenderly in the mirror or go at it with carnal thrusting, all while checking each other out at the same time.

Eye contact is the secret to amazing oral. Give a wink or some smize action, and they'll be putty in your mouth.

Remind yourself how much you turn them on. Seeing their face as they're lost in ecstasy—and realizing you're making it happen—can be the push you need to cross the finish line.

-Source: Cosmo