Practice non-penetrative intimacy...

Work on your non-sexual touch. Find a way to work in hair stroking, back rubs, hand holding, anything PG that encourages you and your partner to show physical affection for one another.

Kiss every day for more than just a couple of seconds. It wards off the perilous roommate effect, especially if you live together and lately have been spending more time doing chores together than checking each other out.

Make hand jobs the main event. Sex is so much more than just penetrative sex, and backing away and focusing on other variations with the same intensity as you do penetration sex can zhoosh some hotness into your routine.

And when it comes to hand jobs, experts suggest using some light applied pressure. You want to act like your hands are creating a vagina for their penis, so a bit of snugness is good here.

Work your nipples slowly through your shirt for a nipplegasm. Friction can be your friend here. You don't want like, chafing, of course, but light touch and patience can go a long way here.

Prioritize oral sex. Have a few nights where the main focus isn’t penetrative sex, but only you receiving oral sex. Communicate with your partner so you can both discover what works best for you in terms of giving and receiving.

Try kneeling beside your partner during oral instead of in front of them. Not only will you give them a great view of your ass, but you also might find it more comfortable and easier for you (or them) to stimulate your clit (also called the Kivin method).

Use your mouth and your hands during blow jobs. Take the head in your mouth, and lick and swirl like you would a soft-serve cone. Meanwhile, use your hands to grip, squeeze, and stroke the length of their penis.

Play with hot and cold sensations. If you're not into the old ice-cube-in-the-cheek trick, try alternating oral with drinking something cold or warm. Even easier: Lightly blow air on their genitals after having them in your mouth.

The hole at the tip of the penis (the meatus) is sensitive during arousal. With your tongue, apply medium pressure on and off.

Use a Tenga Egg for a quick, modified blow job sleeve. Use it with a squidge of lube for a truly out-of-this-world blow job experience that also takes a lot of the effort out of it for you.

-Source: Cosmo